I Need Quiet :: A Reflection for Introverted Women

For every introverted, overwhelmed woman whispering “I need quiet”—this is your space to exhale.

I need quiet. Have always needed it.

Craved it, like a cold drink of water.

Quiet refreshes me. Invigorates me.

Renews my passion, my perspective, my resolve.

Back in the days preceding marriage and motherhood, there was never a lack of quiet. It was abundant.

Quiet nights for rest.

Quiet mornings for prayer.

Quiet afternoons for reading. Or writing.

Quiet evenings enjoying my family.

Then came marriage. Less quiet, but another soul with whom to enjoy it.

Then came babies. Five of them.

No more quiet. No rest. No breaks.

Suddenly I find myself gasping for air, like one drowning.

Where is the quiet? I need quiet!

I fight the urge to raise my voice above the din. To express my frustration, my desperate need.

Like a whisper, my Lord reminds me that true quietness comes from within.

Like a gentle spring, it flows from the hidden places to refresh those who come to it for nourishment.

I exhale and breathe a surrender. And I sense it stealing over me, calming my flustered heart.

His peace. His quiet.

My refuge.

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If you’re exploring other ways to build rhythm and calm into your day, you might enjoy my Self-Care Kit for Introverts—a mindful toolkit of guided reflections, printable resources, and quiet rituals for Christian women.

And for a beautiful perspective on the spiritual value of silence, this short article by Renovaré is a lovely companion.

Here’s to living well—

Kristy

Scriptures to Anchor Your Quiet

“In quietness and trust is your strength.” Isaiah 30:15

“Be still, and know that I am God.” Psalm 46:10

“Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life.” I Thessalonions 4:11

“The Lord will fight for you, you need only to be still.” Exodus 14:14