christian mentor
christian mentor
Christian Mentor for women Healing from shame-shaped religious systems
Reclaim your identity in Christ. Rediscover beauty, rest,
& unshakable confidence.
You’ve carried the weight of perfectionism, guilt, & performance in the name of faith—this is your invitation to heal.
You’re not too much, too late, or too broken.
Thank you for the gracious mentoring you extend through this blog.
It’s great to find out that there are other women out there who can relate. Sometimes you just need some kind of connection.
Welcome, Friend!
I’m Kristy—writer & Christian mentor for women healing from shame-shaped religious systems.
If you’re carrying more than your share of emotional & spiritual weight, you’re not alone.
I’ve lived that tension too—people-pleasing & burnout, motherhood & identity loss, performance & guilt. I know what it’s like to question your worth while still trying to “get it right.”
That’s why I create gentle guidance for women like you—women who are ready to shed shame, stop striving, & rebuild a confident life rooted in grace.
Here, you’ll find honest reflections, restful rhythms, & practical tools for reclaiming your identity in Christ—& building beauty, rest, & unshakable confidence from the inside out.
Let’s walk together toward the confidence & rest you’ve been craving.
Let’s Connect
Reads (from the blog)
I Need Quiet :: A Reflection for Introverted Women
Reading Time: 2 minutesFor introverted or overwhelmed women, “I need quiet” isn’t a whim—it’s self-regulation. A gentle reflection on rest, calm, & sacred stillness.
Healing the Father Wound (for Christian Daughters)
Reading Time: 4 minutesStruggling with your dad’s legacy? Explore how healing the father wound begins by seeing God as He truly is—gentle, near, and good.
What Do Introverts Do for Fun? 10 Creative Hobbies to Reclaim Your Self-Care
Reading Time: 4 minutesExplore what introverts do for fun with this mindful guide to creative hobbies, introvert self-care, and restful rhythms. Includes a hobby list, FAQs, and links to supportive tools and series.
Why Introvert Friendship Is a Surprisingly Essential Part of Self-Care
Reading Time: 3 minutesIntrovert friends are real—and necessary. In this post, I share how to make friends as an introvert, what loneliness taught me, and why friendship is self-care.
10 Summer Self-Care Ideas That Actually Make You Smarter
Reading Time: 6 minutesDiscover 10 summer self-care ideas that actually make you smarter. From classic books to tech fasts and journaling, these soul-nourishing practices are designed to sharpen your mind and bring clarity. Part of the Summer Self-Care Series with Kristy.
Rest Is Productive—Especially for Introverted Christian Women
Reading Time: 5 minutesRest is productive—especially for Christian moms. Learn why rest isn’t laziness but sacred wisdom. This post offers faith-rooted insights and practical tips to help you reclaim peace, reset your rhythm, and show up with renewed strength.
I always love seeing your name in my inbox. Thank you!
Your Reset is great! Thanks for the resource.
I just finished reading the Self-Care, Style, & Confidence Bundle. SO GOOD! I literally almost cried (and I’m at work). Thank you for being so real.
You are definitely feeding my creativity! I felt so much more confident today.
Healing Begins Here
Gentle Mornings Playlist
Soothing music for journaling, prayer, & peace.
The Grace Reset
5 guided prompts to help you reset your day with confidence & rest.
Friday Morning Letters
A quiet end-of-week email with notes on healing, identity, & grace.
Go Deeper in Your Healing
Healing the Father Wound Devotional
This 21-day guided devotional will lead you from a place of pain toward the heart of God, your perfect Father.
Self-Care, Style & Confidence Bundle
Gentle tools for rebuilding confidence, rhythms, & emotional strength—from a place of grace, not pressure.
1:1 Mentoring with Kristy
Private mentoring for Christian women ready to shed shame, stop striving, & rebuild a confident life rooted in Biblical grace.
